Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Yada Yada Prayer Group Lessons

Last time I talked about getting out of my comfort zone and "getting real" with others in regards to friendships. Still a work in progress, obviously this will not be something that will happen over night. As I continue reading the "The Yada Yada Prayer Group" books (I am now on book 4- the library is a wonderful thing!) I have become more and more inspired and am learning more about having a heart of prayer. I think prayer can be a hard thing sometimes. I personally get wrapped up in my own thoughts and often become self reliant instead of letting God in on my decisions, worries, and daily thoughts. How wonderful it is when I actually let go of things that are weighing me down and give it to God. Things just seem so much easier when I do, and God gives me such peace...but then over time it seems inevitable that I fall back to my old way of self reliance and become bogged down by the world. Does this happen to anyone else? I know its something to constantly work at (or should it come easy?) How do you keep connected with God and maintain a relationship with faithful prayer? Are you like me and sometimes just pray when things are tough, or do you pray constantly even when things are steady and good?

Here are a few things that I am learning more about from the "Yada Yada" books:
  • Prayer and praise
  • Praying scripture
  • Thanking God for what he has done before He does it (whatever the outcome may be, He will work things out according to HIS will even if we don't understand at the time)
  • Believing God versus believing in God

Monday, June 28, 2010

The "Ray" Visit to Asheville, NC

Grandpa and Grandma R. and Uncle Will came to visit us this past weekend. It has been hard for all of the grandparents to not be able to see Christian more often, especially since he has been growing so quickly! So they came out to see us, our new home, and Steve before he deploys here soon.We drove up and they flew into Charlotte late Thursday (can I just say that it is REALLY difficult finding good flights from Colorado to South Carolina? Come on people, work with us here!) and we traveled to Asheville on Friday for a little exploration. Saturday we returned home to Sumter (with a little car trouble- boo!) for a couple of days before they left for their flight back in Charlotte.
It was a shorter visit, but we still managed to get in a little shopping, spa time, computer games (*ahem*- the boys), Starbucks, and relaxation. So nice to get the chance to see each other again. Thanks for visiting us!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

"All men are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever."
~1 Peter 1:24

Monday, June 21, 2010

Cookies and Cream

We had a relaxing Father's Day overall. Church, lunch with friends, and relaxing at home. Actually, Steve didn't relax too much because he was busy hanging pictures in the family room, master bedroom, and bonus room upstairs. I think hanging pictures is one of our least favorite things to do, even though we definitely appreciate the end result. It would be a lot easier of course, if our series of 3 picture frames had hooks that were actually the same on the back- lesson learned, go for better quality frames. At least we won't have to hang them again for a few more years.
Christian decided to begin crawling yesterday for Father's Day- just a few leg/arm movements but he is becoming more and more bold, and really enjoys being able to get his little hands on toys and various other things that were out of his reach before. Guess it's time to begin looking into baby-proofing?
Christian and I also made these delicious cupcakes for Steve on Saturday. Steve loves white cake, Oreos, and frosting so these were perfect. I might add that they were a.maz.ing! Steve's favorite dessert that I make is apple crisp, but he said these may just change that! (No we did not eat them all, even though we may have wanted to. We shared some with neighbors.)

We were sad to not be with our Dads for Father's Day- I think that birthdays and holidays always make us that much more homesick for Colorado and our families. But it also makes us cling tighter to each other and our heavenly Father. What better daddy do we have than the one that loves us unconditionally and sacrificed his Son for us?

Sunday, June 20, 2010

To Daddy

To the best Daddy ever:

Thank you for loving me Daddy! I am always so excited to see you when you come home from work- its the highlight of my day. :o) I love playing with you, going to the pool, and going on walks together. You are my favorite and I hope to be just like you some day!

Happy Father's Day.

Love,
Christian

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Riding the Cow Train


Christian and I went to Willard Farms in Gable, SC this past Wednesday with some other mommies, a daddy, and kiddos from our church. Although Christian is too young to fully appreciate the farm, it was still fun to go on a wagon ride through a corn field and ride "the cow train." We hope to return again as Christian gets older to experience some of the other cool stuff they have like the "big pillow" (as one child called it,) playground, and slide that is buried in a massive dirt pile. :) Plus, you can't beat fresh picked produce, delicious baked goods and hand-scooped ice cream....mmm, mmm.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Christian is 9 Months

This month Christian has been BUSY! He has learned how to get into the sitting position on his own, and rocks on his hands and knees...just one step closer to crawling. He also loves to eat! I think yogurt is probably his favorite, although it takes some convincing to get him to eat green beans. (Just like Daddy.) Christian is also finger feeding all by himself, and is developing his fine motor skills. It's amazing the things that he gets into (and he's not even quite crawling yet-yikes!) He also likes to say "Ma" and "Mum-mum"- much to my delight! He is definitely a little love bug and has already captured the heart of some of the people we have met these past couple of months. Such a fun age, so sweet and playful. Can't believe that he will be a YEAR old in September!
At C's doctor appointment today, he weighed 19 pounds, 10 ounces and was 27.5 inches long. Growing boy!

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Yada Yada Prayer Group

I have been reading The Yada Yada Prayer Group series by Neta Jackson as of late (a 7 book series- I'm only on book 2.) Definitely light reads, but perfect for the end of the day when my mind is a little numb anyway. Actually, I have really been enjoying these books because they are all about getting real with others, becoming vulnerable, and getting out of one's comfort zone. If you know me, this is something that can really be a challenge in my life. I would sometimes rather stay to myself and be "comfortable" rather than getting out there and meeting others. This can be a very bad trait- leading to isolation at times. Steve and I have talked about how much harder it has been to make real friends ever since we graduated from college- why is that? I guess when one enters the "real world" of work and busy schedules it becomes harder and you really have to work at it. I am learning that, and have been trying to take more initiative to meet others and make friends with those at our new church and with our neighbors. It is still difficult though, and I hope that sometime in the next four-ish years while we are here in Sumter that I will be able to meet some women that I can "get real" with and develop more meaningful and intimate friendships.

Future thoughts as a read further into the series....

Monday, June 14, 2010

It's Coming...

As some of you may already know, Steve will be deploying to the Middle East late summer for a "number of months" (Yay, another desert!) Fortunately, we have known about the possibility of this deployment since last July when he returned from his training at Fort Bragg, so it does not come as a huge surprise. My plans during this time is to simply keep busy and PRAY constantly. I think that Christian and I will probably travel to Colorado a couple of times to visit with family and friends, and other than that I am not sure.

We have obviously been apart various times since Steve and I have been together (I am now counting five, with the longest being 6.5 months during our engagement) but never at such a distance, or for this long without a visit or two in between, and certainly not with a busy little boy added to the mix. Please pray for us during this time! While it will obviously be challenging on this end, Steve will be in the Middle East away from civilization and family. We are definitely planning to take advantage of Skype if possible so that we can communicate and "see" each other. Have any of you tried it before? How do you like it? Also, for those of you who have experienced a deployment before or any type of lengthy separation, what is your advice? Any tips for staying connected especially with young children?

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Daylilies

The newest blooms in our yard. Every day it seems like there is something new blooming, and since this is our first summer, we never know quite what to expect. I especially love the ruffled edges on the yellow daylily.

Friday, June 11, 2010

That Face

I cannot stop myself from kissing this adorable, lovable face!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

My 3 Boys

I got a couple of quick shots of Christian, Daddy, and Phoenix playing together:

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Magnolias

One of Steve's first projects once we moved into our house was to plant a magnolia tree. (We are in the South after all.) Not a humongous one, but a variety called "Little Gem Magnolia" which is better for a smaller yard. The fragrance of these blooms is wonderful, and you can smell it just walking by. I cheated on this picture, it is actually a magnolia from a HUGE tree at Swan Lake.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Tubbie Time!

Christian LOVES to splash in the tub. In fact, I am usually wet by the time he is done with his bath. Now that he is sitting he can play with toys and make an even larger mess. :) Love our little man. He is such a joy!

Friday, June 4, 2010

The Best Toys...

...are usually not really toys at all. For example, Christian really enjoys playing with straws. He also likes spatulas, tags, mommy's hair...you get the drift. Often times its things he is not supposed to play with- paper, strings, bags.
Generally the best toys are the ones that are simple and require imagination. Blankets for forts, old boxes, clothes for dress up. I look forward to the days ahead and the creative ways that Christian might play. Oh to be a child again. :o)

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

A Little Trip to NC

Mmm...fortune cookie...eating at Panda Express (Steve is very disappointed that there are no Panda's in SC.)
This Memorial weekend we drove up to North Carolina- we stayed for 1 night. Steve showed me a little of Fort Bragg (a HUGE base!) and then we visited with Steve's cousin, Lauren and her husband, Derrick in Raleigh. So fun to get away, even if it was for just a day.
We also explored a bit of Lake Johnson Park. Can we say beautiful!? I love being able to explore the east and see new things, and I just cannot get over how green it is here. Of course, this is highly attributed to all the rain (which is another wonderful thing all in itself!)

Time to go! Someone was getting a little grumpy...